A practical handbook for families who have just received an autism diagnosis — in English and Hindi
"You don't need to have all the answers today. You just need to take the next right step."
Receiving an autism diagnosis for your child can bring a flood of emotions — confusion, fear, grief, and sometimes even relief at finally having an explanation. All of these feelings are completely valid. This guide is here to help you move from that moment of overwhelm to a clear, calm path forward.
Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is a neurodevelopmental condition that affects how a person communicates, interacts socially, and processes sensory information. It is not a disease, it cannot be "cured," and it does not define the limits of your child's potential.
Autism is called a spectrum because it affects every person differently. Some autistic children are highly verbal; others communicate through gestures, pictures, or assistive devices. Some have significant support needs; others live largely independently. There is no single "type" of autism — every autistic person is unique.
A diagnosis can be made by a developmental paediatrician, child psychiatrist, or clinical psychologist. If you are unsure about your diagnosis or received it from a general physician, seek a formal assessment from one of these specialists. In Uttarakhand, specialists are available in Haldwani, Bareilly, and Delhi. Contact ASFSN for referrals.
Research consistently shows that early intervention — ideally before age 5 — has the greatest positive impact on outcomes for autistic children. This does not mean waiting is a failure. It means: start as soon as you can, with whatever you have access to.
Helps children develop verbal and non-verbal communication. If your child is non-speaking, a speech therapist can introduce Augmentative and Alternative Communication (AAC) tools such as picture boards or speech-generating devices.
Helps children develop daily living skills, manage sensory sensitivities, and improve fine motor abilities like writing, dressing, and eating independently.
A structured therapy that helps children learn skills and reduce behaviours that cause distress. Modern ABA focuses on positive reinforcement and is child-led. Always choose a certified therapist.
Available free at ASFSN Khatima. Creative and sensory-based activities that support emotional regulation, communication, and self-expression in a safe, joyful environment.
Many families struggle with how to explain autism to grandparents, relatives, and siblings. Here are some simple ways to start those conversations:
Many families ask whether to say "autistic child" or "child with autism." Both are used. Many autistic adults prefer "autistic person" as it reflects that autism is part of who they are, not something separate from them. Follow your child's lead as they grow older.
Anurag Society for Special Needs offers free parent support groups, carer wellness sessions, school advocacy assistance, and connections to therapists in your area. Call us at +91 75059 08833 or visit us at Khatima. We respond within 24 hours.
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